Relationships can be hard to maintain especially throughout college. Sometimes when both people are stubborn it’s hard to stay together and eventually the relationship ends. Ladies, even though we want to be the ones in charge and we feel like we should be treated like princesses, men deserve to be treated the same way…
If each side puts a little more effort, the relationship will be equal and there will be room for growth.
I’ve been in a relationship for five years so trust me when I say I know it is not always perfect. There are always ups and downs but when you put more effort into it, good things will come.
Laugh at his jokes
I know it’s funny when he tries and makes a joke and it’s really lame. Therefore, laugh at how lame it is and he will think you are laughing at his joke. It’s a win-win situation, and his feeling won’t get hurt.
Let him win
I don’t care if you are playing H-O-R-S-E or tennis, let him win. Men like to feel powerful and if it makes him happy, why act like a sore loser? The plus side is that he will be in a good mood, which in return results in a better evening.
Make him dinner
Even if it is a television dinner, it doesn’t matter. A simple fix is to buy a Lean Cuisine while he is out, quickly cook it, put it on a plate and separate the parts making it look like a home cooked meal, dispose of the evidence (the box) and there you go… a perfect meal. (He doesn’t need to know it was packaged).
Wear red
Red is a sexy color and a turn on for him. Wear it more and see if you notice a difference.
Don’t fight with him
Ladies seem to pick on men over stupid things. Just drop the arguments and don’t worry about it. Fighting won’t resolve anything and if he starts yelling at you, put in earplugs.
What Guys Should Do For Their Girlfriends
Give her massages
We love it when we get tickled lightly and don’t ask for it. Use one of those rollers if you want. There are even ones with handles.
Buy her flowers
We love getting flowers for no reason. Have them mailed to our work or wherever we least expect to get them. Men don’t realize it is the little things that turn a woman on.
Make her dessert
Add a little chocolate syrup and whipped cream to that banana split.
Write her a cute note
Girls like it when we get little notes or text messages with cute sayings. We aren’t asking for a novel but something simple like “Have a good day at work baby, I love you,” will make our day.
Write her a song
Even if you can’t sing just strum the frickin guitar and tell her how much you love her. It’s cute. If you don’t own a guitar, borrow one.
So remember Campus Socialites, it’s the little things that help keep a relationship strong.
